Misconceptions About Hiring A Personal Stylist

A lot of people have anxiety about the idea of hiring a personal stylist.  There is a really common misconception that personal stylists are only for celebrities; that’s really not true at all.  Sure, it’s becoming a lot more common now, but every day women have been hiring personal stylists (also commonly referred to as image consultants) for years.

So, what’s the problem?  Well I’m going to walk you through the misconceptions and explain the truth of the matter, and hopefully you’ll leave with a better understanding of it all.

 

I Can’t Afford A Personal Stylist

Ok, this could very well be true -but there’s also a really solid chance it isn’t.  The misconception here is that style is only for the elite, and for those who can afford it because stylists are outrageously priced and only put you in designer clothes, and that’s just not true.  The fact is, there are many personal stylists out there all with varying rates and services.  I think the idea of the service being so personalized scares people into thinking you’ll be spending $10,000 for an hour of someone’s time; and while that may be a few stylists out there, that certainly isn’t all of us (or even the majority of us).  You just have to do your research.

I Don’t Want To Look Like The Person I Hire

I hear you, but a good stylist has no interest in making you look like them.  I certainly have no interest in making my clients look like me (see what I did there? Because I’m a good stylist…see what I did?).  A good personal stylist knows that style is PERSONAL and all about you.  It’s not about the stylist and what they want to make you look like.  A good stylist (this is where your research comes in) takes the time to listen, and ask the right questions.  They take the time to understand you, and to help you develop your style (if that’s where you need assistance).  Sure, every stylist is going to push you just a bit (as they should) but a good personal stylist is going to help you bring everything that’s inside of you, outward.  That’s all.  They’re not there to change you or make you into some prototype.  They/we are there to enhance you, not change you.

 

I Don’t Want To Have To Call A Stylist Every Time I Get Dressed

Neither do I!  A big part of hiring a personal stylist is the learning.  Listen, I’ve often been told that I’m teaching myself right out of a job because I teach my clients everything they need to know. All the wisdom I have, I impart on my clients.  The fact is, it’s really important for my clients to understand how and what I do.  My goal isn’t to have my clients dependent on me for all things style. I want them to learn, and have that type of freedom so that if and when they want to style themselves, they can! My clients come back to me over and over again because they know I know what I’m doing, and they often just don’t have the time or energy to put themselves together.  A personal stylist is there to help you and teach you, so that you can fly on your own one-day little dove…if that’s what you want to do.

 

I Can’t Afford Designer Clothes

Neither can I!  I’ve been doing this a long time, and I have yet to put any of my clients in designer clothes.  I’m not sure where this misconception came from…probably from confusing personal stylists with celebrity stylists.  A good stylist is not only cognizant of your budget, but will make it work!  Not only do I take client budgets seriously, it’s always my personal mission to come in under budget.  Style is not about spending a ton of money, and a good stylist knows that.  I can’t tell you how many of my clients are blown away by the fact that I take their budgets seriously and by the deals I’m able to score.  My integrity is a real thing, and I’m not about to let you throw away money you don’t need to.  Your deal is my deal, that’s important to me and should be to any personal stylist.  Beyond that, I don’t ever make suggestions on what a budget SHOULD be.  Only you know what you can afford to spend on a wardrobe, it’s my job to make it work!

What other misconceptions about hiring a personal stylist do you have?  I’d love to hear them so I can help clarify.

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My Thoughts On Rent The Runway

This is a question that I get as a stylist ALL the time: What are your thoughts on Rent The Runway?  Well, I have a few.

Let me start by saying that I am not at all affiliated with Rent The Runway, they don’t pay me or send me free stuff (but here’s to hopin!).  I first learned about Rent The Runway from a friend of a friend a few years ago.  I’m Egyptian, and as you may or may not know, we are a fancy people.  When it comes to weddings, engagement parties, etc. no expense is spared, and the expectation is that you will come dressed to impress.  I always laugh when I hear friends ask “What does black tie optional mean? I have to wear a tie???”.  More often than not, black tie is not an option for a typical middle eastern event, it’s an expectation.  Again, we’re fancy.

Having said that, the average middle easterner can attend anywhere from 2-6 weddings in a SINLGE summer.  Yes, you heard me, a single summer.  That doesn’t include engagement parties, baby showers, bridal showers and the like.  So, getting dressed can be pretty expensive, especially with social media at EVERY corner.  You cannot blow your nose or sneak up to the buffet for a second plate without someone snapping a photo (and posting it, no less).

So, what does all this have to do with Rent The Runway?  Well, to put it plainly, it’s become my saving grace.  As a personal stylist my M-O is that the idea isn’t to spend a million bucks on your clothes, but to look and FEEL like a million bucks IN your clothes; and that’s really what Rent the Runway does. 

Cocktail dresses and evening gowns are not cheap.  A great dress for an event can cost anywhere from $300 - $1000 no problem.  Do the math on that?  If I’m planning to wear a dress only 1 time because I’ll inevitably be photographed in it (which most days, I don’t really care about, especially if I’m looking great, I’ll write about that too) I certainly don’t want to be dropping that kind of cash more than once  a summer (much less several times).

Rent The Runway gives you the option to wear so many gorgeous dresses (I don’t know how they do it!) for literally a fraction of the cost.  You can rent a $1000 Monique Lhullier  dress for $150, you can rent a $1100 Marchesa Notte dress for $165, a $900 Theia for $135 or $500 BCBG for $70.  The fact is, Rent The Runway gives us access to dresses we regularly could only dream of wearing, and where else are you going to find a designer dress that you feel great in for that price?  I have the answer, you won’t. 

I know what some of you may be thinking: “Candace, darling, $165 isn’t cheap!”.  To that I would say, you’re right, it isn’t.  But I will also say is that you must consider your CPW (Cost Per Wear).  Cost Per Wear is exactly what it sounds like.  So let’s do the math. Say you actually go out and purchase a gown for $500.  Maybe you wear it 3 times (if you’re brave and don’t really care about being photographed).  $500 (total cost) /  3 (total wears) = $167 CPW.  If you rent a dress for the same cost, your CPW is the same.  The difference is, you can rent 3 different fabulous dresses that you’ll LOVE wearing, as opposed to wearing the same dress that you’ve purchased 3 times.

The fact is, when people get married, nobody wins.  Wait – no, I mean, when big events happen, they’re going to cost us, that’s just a fact of life. So why not spend the money wisely on something that’s going to make you feel your absolute best for that night?  Not to mention Rent The Runway will send you a second size for free, shipping and returns are really easy, and the customer service (in my own personal experience) has been really superb.  I don’t endorse a lot of things, but they really do things the right way!

In conclusion, if you are a fancy person and attend many fancy events a year…and even if you don’t, Rent The Runway is a great (not to  mention really fun) option.

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Shop Your Closet Challenge

I don’t know about you, but as a stylist I’m shopping A LOT. I’m out shopping for and with clients, but beyond that, I’m out shopping for myself. What I’ve noticed is that the shopping experience can go a number of ways, and lately, it’s been pretty tough. You ever have those days you’re dying to buy something, but just can’t find anything worth taking the plunge on?

Me too.

When those days come, I’m grateful to the gods that I was able to save another dollar - but I end up feeling “blah” because there isn’t anything new, exciting, or inspiring out there. On these days, I like to shop my closet.

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We all have pieces that we love, but haven’t figured out how to wear, pieces that have gotten lost in the shuffle somehow, and pieces that we’ve only thought about in 1 one way. THAT, my friends, is today’s challenge. Forgetting about excess for a moment, and working with what we’ve got. Let’s make a solid effort to let the old inspire us in very new ways!

I want you to try for the remainder of the week to shop your closet. Whether it’s a single piece you haven’t worn in a really long time, putting together an outfit that you’ve never before considered, or re-purposing a piece, I want you to to put your wallet away and step into all the options that already exist for you! In a world where more is more, and we’re distracted by all the shiny-ness around us, let’s really try to inspire ourselves, and share it!I want to see what you’ve done! Post it in the comments, on instagram using the hashtag #shopyourcloset, or share in our facebook group The Anti Stylist. I’m excited to see what you do!

Need help shopping your closet? Check out The Closet Style. Book some time today to chat!

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Get Ready...

It’s time. You’ve waited long enough. I know how hard it can be, because I’ve been there too. Waiting around till we’re the perfect weight, till our skin clears up, till our hair is the right length, or we get the promotion we want. We’ve all done it; waited for the “perfect” time to start feeling great.

I’m writing about it because I’ve fallen victim myself. There were times I wanted to be thinner, and other times I was saving up because there was a piece that I thought would make the difference - but I’m telling you, it wont. If it’s not one thing, it will always be another.

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My whole life I’ve REALLY hated photos of myself. You may have noticed, you don’t see a ton of me on the “interwebs” - and that’s my fault. It’s because I hate pretty much every photo of myself, but you know what? That’s going to change. I’m starting with this post - all sorts of photos of me! Is it uncomfortable, yes. But does it need to be done, YES. I’m a stylist, people need to see me. I can’t wait until I’m perfect, because I never will be. My motto with my clients is: HIGHLIGHT don’t hide! And I haven’t even been taking my own advice…for shame! It’s because we are SO critical of ourselves, that nothing ever becomes good enough. My years of styling the everyday woman has taught me one thing for sure: No one is as critical of us, as we are of ourselves. Period.

I’ve challenged myself to share photos and I’m challenging you to something a little different. Stop waiting! Make the decision today to feel GREAT. To feel great in your skin, in your clothes, in your life. So, here’s my challenge to you:

What are you done waiting on, and what’s been holding you back? I want you to tell us what you’re DONE waiting on, and what you’re going to do despite not being perfect. What moves are you going to make? What outfit are you going to wear? What conversation are you going to have?

I know it can be hard to do, but that’s part of the work we MUST do to be better and get what we want. Need help? Click here to schedule some time to chat. Be sure to download your FREE guide of the “Basics on Basics: My Guide To The 10 Pieces Every Woman Needs”.

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5 Things That Are Making You Look Sloppy

Just because you have a great look pulled together, doesn’t mean your style is.  Check out these 5 little style buggers that are causing you to look sloppy, no matter how awesome the outfit.

 

1)       Wet Hair

As a curly haired girl myself, I know that this can be a tough one.  I can only brush my hair when it’s wet and it takes forever to dry!  That said; walking into work with wet hair is causing you to look ill-prepared.  When your hair is wet, it seems like you woke up late, showered, and ran out the door without taking the time to dry or style your hair.  While this may not be the case, this is how it comes across.  For us curly haired gals, try doing your hair first thing (before breakfast, coffee, and getting dressed) that way you’re not showing up to work with dripping hair and giving it a moment to dry while you get ready.

 

2)       Wrinkles

There’s really no excuse for a wrinkled look.  All it says is that you picked it out from a pile of something, and threw it on.  Even if it’s a great outfit, no one can tell because it’s wrinkled and implies that you don’t care about how you present.  I hate ironing just as much as the next gal, which is why I steam.  It’s quick, easy, and better on your clothes.  Do yourself a favor, don’t walk out in wrinkled clothes, it makes a difference.

 

3)       Chipped Nails

Eek, I’m guilty of this myself!  Your nail color starts to chip, and you don’t have the time to get them redone – I get it.  If you don’t have the time to get your nails freshly painted, just take 30 seconds to take off your chipped polish.  You don’t always have to find the time to get your nails freshly done, but make sure they are clean and paint free as opposed to half chipped.  A partially painted nail can ruin a wholly great look.

 

4)       Worn Clothes

I know it’s your favorite sweater, but, it’s making you look sloppy!  Not taking care of our clothes can cause them to look worn very early on, so be sure to properly wash and store your pieces.  Beyond that, shirts that are faded at the seams, sweaters that are pilling, and a tops that have lost their shape are all contributing to dragging down your look.  You may love the color or pattern, but if any of these things are going on with your pieces, they’re just making you look sloppy.

 

5)       Clothes That Don’t Fit Properly

Whether they’re too large or too tight, clothing that doesn’t fit properly is making you look sloppy.  A top that’s too tight and pants that are too long and dragging on the floor will do nothing but kill your style.  Regardless of how comfortable it is, if the piece doesn’t fit, don’t wear it.

Candace Hanna